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Loving Your Body, Inside and Out

  • Writer: cOMmon
    cOMmon
  • Aug 8
  • 2 min read

Updated: Sep 8

Photo by Kindel Media
Photo by Kindel Media

There is a quiet kind of revolution that begins when we choose to see our bodies not as problems to fix, but as miracles to respect.


For too long, love has been confused with perfection. We measure beauty against changing standards, judge ourselves by what we lack, and shrink our joy to fit into someone else’s mold. But real love? It’s rooted in presence. It says: I see you. I’m staying. Even here.


And that love begins within.



Beyond the Mirror: Reclaiming Body Image


Body image is not about how we look. It’s about how we feel in our skin. Do we feel safe here? Do we feel welcome? Do we listen?


When we treat the body like a machine, it becomes disconnected. But when we treat it like a garden, something to tend, nourish, and cherish, it starts to bloom from within. This is not vanity. This is vitality.


Loving the body doesn’t mean loving every part, every day. It means choosing kindness over critique. It means staying curious instead of harsh. It means remembering that healing is not linear, but always possible.


We see people learning to meet themselves where they are. Not someday. Now.



Small Acts of Body Love


You don’t need to wait for confidence to arrive before treating your body with love. The actions themselves create the feeling.


  • Speak kindly to yourself: Your cells are listening. Choose words that nourish.

  • Dress in what feels good: Not to impress others, but to express your essence.

  • Touch your body with care: Massage, bathe, rest your hands on your body.

  • Stop comparing: Your body’s path is sacred. It is not meant to be measured by another’s.

  • Celebrate what it allows: Laughing, dancing, feeling, breathing. It’s all part of the gift.


If energy is the root, then the body is the soil. And if the soil is depleted, nothing sustainable can grow.



The Return to Inner Belonging


The deeper we root into our bodies, the more we begin to hear a softer, wiser voice within. One that remembers who we are, beyond what we do or how we look.


We are not meant to live at war with ourselves. The moment we meet the body as ally, not enemy, everything shifts. The shame dissolves. The striving quiets. And in its place, we find wholeness.



What’s Next?


We’ve landed back home in the body. A place of breath, rhythm, and truth. Now, we begin listening to the voice within, the one that guides when the noise fades.


In the next path, The Inner Compass, we explore what it means to think clearly, feel fully, and live from inner alignment. Starting with A Mind Full of Thoughts: Observing Without Identifying, we ask: What happens when we stop believing every thought that passes through? And what wisdom lies beneath the noise?

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